Homework

Geoff Dyer is a year older than me. He was born and raised in Cheltenham, less than a hundred miles from London where I grew up. His delightful memoir of childhood, Homework, describes a world that in many respects has vanished, though not from the memories of those who were children in England in the 1960s and 1970s. The pleasures evoked by the book for Dyer’s contemporaries, like me, are a lot to do with recognition and memory. Airfix models, Action Man, the arrival of the first color televisions, playing football in the school playground, discovering one’s tastes in music and books, horrible food: these things were important parts of our lives in much the same way that memoirs in forty years will feature social media, mobile phones, and the launch of Netflix.

Dyer is very good at poking fun at his parents, his wider family, his friends, and himself, but it’s all done in such an affectionate, tolerant and forgiving way. In fact, it’s the tone of Homework that lingers long after the final page is turned, not just the stories and the personal memories that surface because of them. He recalls his childhood with just the right balance of affection, nostalgia, and embarrassment. He’s never cruel or sentimental and knows how fortunate he is to have loving (though never demonstrative and occasionally infuriating) parents and to have been raised in a safe and comfortable place. Homework is also very funny, at least to those of us who grew up at the same time.

Death of an Ordinary Man

Another beautifully written and important book about death and fathers. Death of an Ordinary Man is a memoir, but it comes from the hands of a celebrated and prize winning English novelist, Sarah Perry, who brings to this deeply felt and moving account of the death of her much loved father-in-law an artist’s particular sensitivity and insight. It may be a story about death, but it’s also about illness, the care of the dying and ultimately about love and faith. It may be very particular, but it is also universal. And as the blurb on the cover says, “Please read this book. It may very well change how you live“. This unforgettable book deserves to win every prize available. I have not read anything as deeply moving for a very long time.